Living Without Scheming (Proverbs 16:9)

“So, if you do what I tell you, your life will be better, you will feel more confident, and success will definitely follow. Your relationships and your career will improve. You just have to have faith!”

It sounded compelling—almost irresistible. But there was one glaring problem. The motivational speaker delivering this message was sixty years old, had never had a girlfriend, and had just been fired from his most recent job.

How often have I heard pitches like this—words polished and persuasive—only to have the credibility collapse under the weight of the messenger’s own life? The word faith is often inserted into these presentations, lending a veneer of nobility and spirituality. Yet there is little faith here—only confidence cloaked in religious language, and promises that quietly place the burden of outcomes back onto human control.

Many years ago, I came across an anonymous quotation that stopped me in my tracks:

“Faith is living without scheming.”

It lingered with me. Still does. Do I really like a life of faith in God? What does living a life of faith actually look like? Because when pressed, faith can sound unsettling—even threatening.

Faith is living without guaranteed outcomes.

Faith is living without visible security.

Faith is living without knowing how everything will turn out.

But the quote is careful. It does not say faith is living without thought, effort, or responsibility. It says: without scheming. And that distinction matters. Scheming is not the same as planning.

Scheming is:

Forcing outcomes God has not yet given

Manipulating relationships to preserve control

Selling pieces of the soul for a sense of security

Panicking into roles God has already released us from

Scheming is what happens when fear masquerades as wisdom. So I would complete the statement this way:

Faith is living without scheming—but not without responsibility.

Scripture consistently draws this line.

Abraham planned. He gathered his household and stepped forward in obedience—but he did not manipulate God for guarantees.

Joseph worked faithfully, both in Potiphar’s house and in prison—but he did not scheme his way out of injustice.

David had opportunity—ample opportunity—to secure the throne by force. Yet he refused to take Saul’s life, choosing trust over acceleration.

Even Jesus lived this way.

He withdrew when crowds wanted to crown Him king.

He remained silent when a defense could have spared Him.

He entrusted Himself fully to the Father—even when obedience led not to affirmation, but to a cross.

Faith, then, is not passivity.

It does not mean we stop planning—it means we stop plotting.

It does not mean we stop working—it means we stop manipulating.

It does not mean we abandon wisdom—it means we refuse to trade obedience for control.

Scheming always asks, “How do I secure myself?”

Faith asks, “How do I remain faithful?”

Scheming grasps.

Faith receives.

Scheming exhausts the soul.

Faith rests—even while walking forward.

At this stage of my life, this distinction has become painfully—and mercifully—clear. There are doors I could force, narratives I could sell, identities I could preserve out of fear. But faith is learning to live without those safety nets—not recklessly, not irresponsibly—but honestly before God.

And Scripture captures this tension with quiet precision:

The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.

Proverbs 16:9 (ESV)

Faith plans—but does not scheme.

Faith walks—but does not demand control.

Faith acts—then trusts God with the outcome.

Faith is doing the next right thing without insisting on a guaranteed ending.

And that kind of faith may not be impressive.

It may not feel secure.

It may not look successful.

But it is free.

Love and trust the Lord; seek His will in your life.

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Quid, Pro, Quo (John 15:13)

“I have faithfully loved you for 10 years. I never disagreed with you. I always remained loyal to you. You should be grateful and love me in return. 

“That’s not what love is. Just because you loved me for 10 years doesn’t mean I owe you something. Love isn’t like that. Love is not quid, pro, quo.”

As I watched a drama, I was struck by this conversation. On the surface, I would have agreed with the first speaker but the answer hit deeper. Love isn’t like that. Love is not quid, pro, quo. And this is the issue I had not learned. 

For so many years, I viewed love as transactional. I would do things in the hope that others would notice. I would perform a selfless act for another with the hidden hope that someday they may return a similar action. It was only when I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior that I understood the true meaning of love.

Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.

John 15:13 (ESV)

Love is not quid, pro, quo. It does not give only when given. Love is sacrificial. It gives regardless of the consequences. It is patient, kind, and does not remember wrongs. It bears all things, believes all things, and hopes for all things. Rabbi Julius Gordon elegantly summarized it, “Love is not blind, it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.”

I am still learning this kind of love. I still catch myself measuring effort and keeping score. But the cross has ended my right to demand repayment. Jesus did not love me because I was faithful, agreeable, or loyal. He loved me while I was still learning what love even meant. Love that keeps score will always be disappointed. Love that is anchored in Christ is already full.

Love and trust in the Lord; seek His will in your life.

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Are We Living In a Golden Age? (Hebrews 11:13)

Aerial view of Paris featuring the Eiffel Tower, the Seine River, and various historical buildings and bridges in a colorful vintage style.

It was a golden age.

No—this is not 2026.

And this is not America.

This was a reference to a period in Europe from 1871 until 1914, the years between the Franco-Prussian War and World War I. It was a season marked by relative peace, stability, and the remarkable flourishing of culture, art, and science. In France, the Eiffel Tower was built. Cinema was born. Radioactivity was discovered. Modern germ theory was established. The French embraced the spirit of the age with a phrase that captured its mood: joie de vivre—the joy of living.

Yet the irony remains. A golden age is never proclaimed while it is being lived. It is only named in retrospect. The French would later call this era La Belle Époque—the Beautiful Era. Others would refer to it simply as the Golden Age. But those living in it did not know how close they were to catastrophe, nor how abruptly their confidence, stability, and optimism would be shattered.

Today, we once again hear talk of a new golden age—in America and elsewhere. There is prosperity, innovation, and renewed confidence. But history urges caution. It may be premature to label the present moment while we are still living inside it.

Which raises a deeper question. Is there such a thing as a spiritual golden age? Scripture suggests that God’s people rarely recognize their most faithful seasons while living in them. Faith, by its very nature, is not lived in hindsight. It is lived forward—often uncertain, often incomplete, and seldom labeled as “golden” in the moment. Once again, God’s Word gives us the answer.

These all died in faith, not having received the things promised, but having seen them and greeted them from afar…

Hebrews 11:13 (ESV)

Perhaps the true spiritual golden age is not marked by comfort, cultural dominance, or material prosperity, but by quiet trust, perseverance, and obedience—understood clearly only later, when we look back and see God’s hand guiding us through ordinary days.

Love and trust in the Lord; seek His will in your life.

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You Want to Put Snail Mucin on Your Face? (Hebrews 4:12)

When I traveled to South Korea last year, I expected wonderful food, deep history, and a culture that takes skin care seriously. What I didn’t expect was how overwhelmed I would feel standing in front of shelves packed with products promising transformation of the skin through ingredients I had barely heard of—especially snail mucin.

The confidence was striking. The packaging was elegant. Testimonials were everywhere. Many people genuinely swear by these products. Still, a quieter question surfaced: How do we know what really works? Modern skin care moves quickly. Once a novel ingredient gains attention—especially one that sounds exotic or cutting-edge—companies rush to include it. Soon, the market fills with nearly identical products, each promising visible results. That doesn’t mean these products are useless. But it does mean that newness itself often becomes the selling point. And this way of thinking doesn’t stop at skin care.

Snail mucin has been studied primarily in small or short-term settings. Most of the available data comes from open-label studies, laboratory research, or subjective outcomes such as hydration and smoothness. At best, snail mucin functions as a hydrating, barrier-supportive ingredient. It can soften the surface. It can make the skin feel better. What it has not been shown to do is fundamentally change the deeper structure of the skin over time.

Is there anything that does work? Retinoic acid is not trendy. It doesn’t rely on testimonials or viral enthusiasm. It rests on decades of careful, controlled science. Well-designed studies have consistently demonstrated its ability to: increase dermal collagen, normalize epidermal turnover, improve acne and photoaging, and produce reproducible, long-term results.

Earlier in my career, I had the privilege of doing research with one of the co-discoverers of retinoic acid as a treatment for skin disease. What struck me then—and still does today—was how quietly the work spoke. There was no hype. No rush. Just careful observation, patience, and truth revealed over time. And often, that truth wasn’t comfortable at first. Retinoic acid frequently causes redness, peeling, and irritation before improvement appears. But those early effects are signs that something deeper is actually happening.

Here is where the analogy becomes unavoidable. Snail mucin can soften the surface. Retinoic acid exposes and treats what lies beneath. In the same way, until we see our sin clearly, grace will always seem optional. Until we recognize our need, salvation will always feel like an accessory.

The gospel does not begin with innovation. It begins with confession. Just as retinoic acid reveals damage before it heals, God’s Word exposes what we would rather ignore—not to shame us, but to restore us.

For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two- edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

(Hebrews 4:12)

Conviction can feel uncomfortable. It can sting. It can peel away illusions we’ve grown accustomed to. But without that exposure, no real transformation is possible. The modern church, like modern skin care, can drift toward surface solutions—exceptional music, carefully produced services, online engagement metrics, and constant accessibility—while quietly assuming these things can accomplish what only God’s Word can do. These things may attract us, but they cannot diagnose our condition or cure our disease. What we truly need is God’s Word to show us our sinful state, so that we can confess and repent—and receive what we cannot produce ourselves.

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

(1 John 1:9)

Grace is not cosmetic. Grace is transformational. And it comes only through Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

There is nothing wrong with curiosity. There is nothing sinful about trying something new. But neither novelty nor innovation—whether in skin care or in church—can replace what has always been necessary. Truth must come before transformation. Conviction must come before comfort. And grace must be received, not applied.

Love and trust the Lord; seek His will in your life.

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