“I have to tell you about how we met!”
Many years ago, my sister was gushing about a man she met on a dating app, one that she had been using, several years since her husband passed away from cancer.
“I was already uptight because he owns an auto repair shop. I can’t stand it when people have dirty fingernails.”
I nodded. “Yeah, takes a lot to clean the grease and grime from under those fingernails, especially for mechanics.”
“Yup! But you know what, when we first met, his fingernails and hands were spotless! He told me that he always makes sure his hands are clean when he leaves work because he feels the same way!”
“Wow!”
“He passed the first test!”
We both laughed. The clean fingernails were only the beginning. Within a few months, they were engaged! Many were surprised by the rapidity of events but they both knew they were right for each other. Over a decade later, they have successfully raised four lovely children, two from his former marriage and two from my sister’s.
First impressions are important. However, it should not be the sole criterion of how we form our opinions about another person. The Prophet Samuel learned this lesson from God when He was sent to anoint the next King of Israel. Samuel went to the house of Jesse. Samuel was certain one of the seven sons who came before him was to be anointed. All were handsome and of impressive bearing, but God rejected each of them and solemnly charged Samuel.
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.”
1 Samuel 16:7 (ESV)
When Samuel inquired if there were any other sons, Jesse replied that his youngest son, David, was still in the fields, tending the sheep so Samuel asked that David be brought before him.
And he sent and brought him in. Now he was ruddy and had beautiful eyes and was handsome. And the LORD said, “Arise, anoint him, for this is he.” Then Samuel took the horn of oil and anointed him in the midst of his brothers.
1 Samuel 16:12-13 (ESV)
Clean fingernails were the first sign that my sister and her future husband were off to a good start. Ultimately, like God’s choice of David, it was the nature of their hearts that was most important.
Love and trust in the Lord; seek His will in your life.
