My text message flashed a beautiful picture of my friends. They were seated at a formal dinner. He was laughing, looking at his wife, who was laughing back at him. They looked like honeymooners—completely in love. And they were. But their smiles hid a tragic truth. He was dying of cancer and had only a few months left to live. The photograph was sent to me by his wife just days after he passed away—a quiet, poignant reminder of the life and love they had shared.
As I reflected on that image, something struck me. From the moment we are born, we begin to die. Most of us live as though that reality is distant—almost theoretical. We assume there will be more time… more years, more chances, more tomorrows. But for some, like my friends, that illusion is stripped away.
She later told me that when she learned of his diagnosis, everything changed. The little things that once irritated her no longer mattered. The habits, the inconveniences, the minor frustrations—all of it faded. She began to live each day with the awareness that it could be his last. And because of that, she lived differently. She loved more intentionally. She valued time more deeply. She refused to be distracted by what didn’t matter.
It is sobering that it often takes a terminal diagnosis to wake us from our complacency. I see this in myself. How easily I allow small annoyances to consume my thoughts—a flat tire, spoiled milk, a forgotten task. These things steal attention and energy from what truly matters. It shouldn’t be this way.
Scripture does not just remind us that life is short—it teaches us how to live because it is short.
So teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom.
Psalm 90:12 (ESV)
To “number our days” is not to live in fear of death…but to live with clarity about life. It is to recognize that our time is limited—and therefore precious. And even more than that, Scripture reminds us that our lives are not drifting aimlessly toward death…they are moving toward eternity.
I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in Me, though he die, yet shall he live.
John 11:25 (ESV)
This changes everything. If we truly believe this, then our days are no longer random or disposable. They are appointed. We are called to live with urgency—but not anxiety. With purpose—but not panic. With eternal perspective—not temporary distraction. The question is not whether we are dying. The question is: Are we living in light of eternity? Are we loving well? Are we using our time for what lasts? Are we sharing the hope we claim to believe?
Because one day, like my friend, our time here will end. And what will matter then is not what annoyed us…but what we did with the life we were given.
Love and trust in the Lord; seek His will in your life.
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